My eyes welled up more than a few times while watching Ina May Gaskin’s new documentary, Birth Story: Ina May Gaskin & The Farm Midwives. I felt emotional throughout, for several reasons, which I’ll explain in this article and review of the film.
The women behind the scenes making the event happen were my friend and two-time doula, Jessica English, and midwife Linda Healey (who also happened to by my two-time midwife). As SW Regional Coordinator of FoMM, I helped out by gathering silent-auction items from local businesses.
That night, I was surrounded by the energy of 50+ local birth-advocate women and their families. I felt the full room. Safe to say this was an integral factor in my emotional state.
In the film, three natural home births were depicted beautifully, which were woven seamlessly within the story of how The Farm came to be.
Ina May Gaskin was of course a reocurring character. One the audience couldn’t get enough of. We felt lucky to be guests into her past through iconic photographs and film footage of the most famous midwife in the United States. Coming in and out were scenes was her husband, Stephen Gaskin.
And those two lovebirds are the next reason why Birth Story was a big tear-fest. When Stephen said, (paraphrasing) “I’m glad just to be her Sherpa. The Sherpa gets to join you on your way up the mountain.” ?? Enough. said. #meltmyheart
I learned plenty of lessons, some of which I was learning all over again, and some for the first time.
- As always, natural birth is so stunning, it takes my breath away and fills my heart
- Peace and love, and not just in that hippie cliche, (but also that) helps babies come out
- Passion + a good cause + hard work = incredible, life and world-changing results (I want to be like the go-givers in this film!)
- Birth is a normal and natural process
- Women are so f*ing powerful!
- I happen to work best in large groups when I have a task – that night, I sat at the greeting table, accepted donations and re-secured sharpie lids while welcoming each person into the room. I got to say hello to everyone without stumbling drunken-sailor style around the room. Score!
- We need more positive films like this one. Rather than make me mad, I felt inspired and courageous